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The article explains the man's behavior as a display of dominance, while the book simply suggests the two have different understandings. I'm not saying we deserve a medal fod dealing with the pressure of everyone's suspicions and expectations and still managing to maintain kick-ass friendships in the process, but For most men, talk is primarily a means to preserve independence and negotiate and maintain status in a hierarchical social order.
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What are you waiting for?! Half the population can't be friends with each other? And no matter what happens, women with male best friends aren't pulling some kind of sexual long con. But it can be really exhausting to spend so much time correcting people's perceptions and answering their super invasive questions.
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But even when nothing sexual has ever happened between you and your male BFF. These patterns have paradoxical effects.
These patterns, which begin kale childhood, mean, for instance, that men are far more likely to interrupt another speaker, and not to take it personally when they are themselves interrupted, while women gay chat number more likely to finish each other's sentences. Soon, they realize they have nothing to worry about. The New York Times called it "a refreshing and readable of the complexities of communication between men and women.
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